Compatible Partners

In general, how many nights a week do you go out for entertainment? What sorts of things do you like to do when you go out on the town?

I am going through a healthy phase right now so weekdays after work I am more likely than not doing something physical away from home. When I do go out socially it might be to dinner or dancing or catching whatever's on. To be honest it is cold outside and I would rather be in bed right now. Warm, cosy bed

What do you find physically attractive?

I find beautiful women attractive. I find strong confident powerful women very sexy and very scary which is fun. I find strength and focus very attractive in a woman. I find drive sexy

Describe your spirituality.

I am a Muslim. A conflicted, questioning, sceptical but Muslim all the same. My extended family is a mixture of Christian's, Muslim's, and don't give a damns. Either way my spirituality is personal to me. I don't share it, invite others to it or expect others to contribute to it.

Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could share with you.

Interest in growth being the true person we can be as individuals and together

If you could accomplish only one thing during the rest of your life, what would it be?

To be the best me I can be (I know corny right, I am in a reflective mood this morning)

Are you doing what you love? If not, what would you rather be doing?

I am doing what I have to do to contribute. What would I be rather doing on cold morning like this? (three guesses!)

Looking back on your life, of what are you most proud?

That is a serious question. I could ask you the same. One of many would be sticking it out and getting my UK citizenship. It was an emotionally exhausting journey

What is the one dream for your life you most look forward to having come true?

I look forward to building a home for my family with wives and children incorporating gardens of water and light.

 I look forward to taking care of our (my family and I’s) material needs and providing a safe nurturing environment where we can grow into a strong, confident, fearless and kind family.

Tonight you can do anything you want, no penalties, no reprisals, and the cost is unimportant. What are you going to do?

Discover the world. Get each of my dogs a nanny (so I don’t have to be on poop duty). We can visit different communities, recording people and how we live. Reflecting where I fit in and hopefully enjoying the process.

Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could share with you.

It's complicated. On one hand it would be great if my partner introduced me to interests I had no idea about which I could love, hate or be indifferent to. And I hope I would bring the same to her. On the other hand if she likes 80s pop music first thing in the morning that would do my head in

What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?

I recently had a one night only threesome. This was also not the smartest thing I have ever done in hindsight.

How would you spend a romantic evening with someone you have been dating for more than one year?

Depends on what she likes to do. It would have to be more romantic for her than for me