Cosmo's Orgasm fact

GENTLE

 Just make sure that she's comfortable and relaxed before trying out your moves, and, remember, do everything with a sense of playfulness.

Occasionally make eye contact while you suck

• Get your ... to stroke your labia for five minutes before touching your clitoris. Breathing deeply, do pelvic-floor squeezes and when he feels two-second contractions as you near orgasm, get him to move his fingers to stroke inside your vagina. After you've come, he should move his fingers between your vagina and clitoris and, stroking gently, launch another wave of orgasms
• The average woman only needs around 8 minutes but, according to sexologist Seymour Fisher, some go off after one minute's stimulation, while others need half an hour or more. So you see, we really are all different
• To give you oral sex suggest that she moves herself so that she's lying sideways and move one of his hands flat on your pubic bone and guide her to carefully pull your entire pubic mound upwards. This helps to expose your clitoris. She can then use her other hand between your legs to sensually finger you. Now suggest she uses her tongue to lap sideways across your clitoris creating a whole new feeling for you. This sideways angle in "across the bridge" is both teasing and pleasing in equal measures!
• Next time your... is going down on you, ask her to lick your vulva with a flat tongue from top to bottom very, very slowly. This whole extended kiss should take around sixty seconds and it absolutely heavenly. Then ask her to hum with her tongue on your clitoris. It's guaranteed to have you vibrating with pleasure.
• Rather than opting for the most comfortable position during ‘you time', experiment with different stances: try masturbating standing up, kneeling on all fours, lying face down or on your side. Varying positions will change the way your body responds to different masturbating techniques and surprise you with new sensations.